Robert Crosnoe, author of Fitting In, Standing Out: Navigating the Social Challenges of High School to Get an Education (2011), researched social problems at high school. He found that bullying and social isolation has a long-term impact.
Hear Robert Crosnoe discuss the social turbulence of adolescence and the long-term effects.
Autism at School: A Video Resource for Teachers and Parents in New Zealand (Smith, 2009) features a student called Jordan who is at the high-functioning end of the spectrum. The DVD describes his integration into secondary schooling. Strategies such as building teacher understanding, having a teacher aide, and using a laptop for note-taking have helped his academic learning. The social side of secondary school has been more of a challenge.
I once described it to one of the deans as being a mouse trying to be a cat in a house full of cats. And all the time hoping they don’t recognise me as a mouse. I’m going to be a cat. I’m trying to be cat. And the stress of keeping that façade up is very difficult.
Debbie Williams (Jordan’s mother)
Implementation of the blame-free bullying approach has gone some way to reducing the bullying and teasing Jordan has experienced.
Robert Crosnoe shares Ava’s story, one teenager’s experiences of bullying.
Change the way the bullies think of us, maybe. And change the fighting and teasing.
Cayla
Being able to walk around the school during lunchtime and morning tea, and be a safe place.
Richard
On the whole, though, these students clearly appreciate the specialised support they get from their teachers and the camaraderie and sense of safety they experience in their class:
I just want to say that I really love this class, this satellite, because we’re one big family and we stick together every day. And we just don’t matter what people think of us. We’re just one big whole family, and if you get the chance to meet us or come to this school, just check our class out, because you’d be amazed at what you see and how strong we are together.
Sinead